George W: ‘The toffee apples and the hinged glass fronted biscuit cabinet. The ‘ding’ of the bell when you opened the door. Harry and Maggie Stockman’s friendly, welcoming demeanour. Distant childhood memories of a much simpler lifestyle….’
Me, it was ‘Oddfellows’ sweets that I liked. The jar up on the shelf, multi-coloured pastel-coloured sweets that fizzled and buzzled and popped in your mouth. A Saturday treat coming back from the beach, or a packet of sweets going to or fro badminton at the Kelly Hall. A great shop, shelves and shelves of jars of sweets.
Karen Ross has written about her dad, Derek Ross, at the Rock Shop and her mum June at LV Ross’s, on Main St., and continues her family story: ‘The photograph above, is the Seaside Supply Store, 68 Causeway Street, Portrush, property of Harry and Maggie Stockman, my maternal grandparents.
Trish: ‘Gosh, I remember them very well. Mrs Stockman not only watching the shop, but the stove going in the kitchen, boiling up toffee etc. The living room behind the shop had Toby jugs on a high shelf around the room!’
Sheila K: “Oh wow! Ross’ shops! There was one way down from the White House – I think it’s either an antique shop or an artist’s shop now – the other was near Rohdich’s … I can still smell the tobacco from it. And Stockman’s in Causeway Street – the best toffee apples ever!”
And Karen, ‘Yep! Granny toffee apples, 12 dozen of them daily in the peak summer period!’
Leslie M: ‘Loved that shop you could smell the toffee apples as you came through the door!’
Sylvia R: ‘Oh my goodness! I can still taste the toffee apples and fudge! ‘
Helena A: ‘The Stockmans had a shop in Causeway St. There was an entry beside the shop, there on the right of the photo, before the row of houses opposite Brankins. There were steps and then a sort of path that took you to the back of the houses in Hamilton Place. I used to buy broken biscuits with my pocket money and they had penny ice lollies.’
Lucy S: ‘I remember going down ‘Stockmans Lane’ from Hamilton Place with my friend to head into the shop with my 10p. Got a lot of sweeties back then.’
Billy D: ‘I think I got sliders in there. remember the toffee apples and 2oz (maybe 8 or 9) of brandy balls before the Sea Cadets.’
Rosemary P: ‘Mr & Mrs Stockman were directly across the road from us in Causeway Street – a wonderful couple, we were all very fond of them. In fact I have a couple of jars from their shop and a wonderful trifle dish that makes an appearance at Christmas xox.’
Trish G: ‘So many memories…. Bringing their black lab Bingo, back. Not having been brought up with a dog, I never realised there were such things as dog biscuits …’
George S: ‘Mrs Stockman’s fudge was amazing. I bought something recently called Scottish Tablet. It was nowhere near as good but it was similar, so probably an old Scottish recipe handed down from generation to generation.
‘On the odd occasion that I’d ever be fortunate enough to have a pound note, Harry would rub it between his fingers and say ‘You can’t pay with this, it’s just an aul soap wrapper’.
‘I remember the wee door bell that would chime to let them know someone had came in and the hinged glass fronted biscuit cabinet, not to mention Quenchers, Jokers, Merry Maids and Riley’s Chocolate Toffee Rolls.
‘I recall a very sad time when Harry was in hospital and I think on her way to visit, Mrs Stockman had a fall and broke her leg. I remember how unfair it seemed, it’s odd the things that stay in your head over the years.
‘Norma Henry, I used to get Norman’s cigarettes for him and Margaret Eason’s. I couldn’t have been very old because they would give me thruppence for going and I was born in 1965 .’
Karen continues, ‘My maternal grandparents were Harry and Maggie Stockman, and their children shown in the photo were, eldest Bette on the left, then Andrew and then my Mum, June. There is an eerie resemblance between me and la madre!’
‘My Aunt Bette was a polio victim who walked with a leg caliper all of her short life. Their dad Harry Stockman had hoped to emigrate to the USA but the family visa request was refused because of Bette’s polio.
‘My Aunt Bette: honestly, I WORSHIPPED her! A million dollar smile always, despite her challenged life. Polio, and then C. Those times, as there was nothing to do about this cruel illness, the doctor advised my Dad (unknown to Maggie) to alleviate her suffering by putting whiskey in Bette’s lemonade bottle. And, God love her, my granny, she said, ‘It’s amazing, Bette always seems to feel a bit better after her lemonade.’ How charming life was then eh? And trust me, this is the absolute truth.’
And Pauline Rigby (Hunt) adds, ‘David I have just read your piece on the Rock Shop, and on the Stockman / Ross family. Mrs. Stockman made the best toffee apples ever. My mum, Gerry Hunt, would sometimes take us in on our way home from St Patrick’s and let us have one as a treat. Also Betty Stockman – always ‘Auntie Betty’ to me – was a close friend of our parents, Gerry and Frank Hunt.’
It was a tempestuous life also for Andrew, often called Drew. ‘He was in the Merchant Navy. His vessel was blown up during WW2 and when he recovered consciousness he found himself in a hospital down in Cornwall.
‘Another family story: he was also next one on the list to be assassinated during a hostage episode.
‘After WWII he continued serving in the forces, was stationed in Cyprus during the troubles of 1964, and was caught up in a crisis. The Prime Minister’s office phoned my grandmother Maggie to let her know that Andrew had been taken hostage.
‘As the crisis deepened, the Turkish hostage takers started shooting the hostages, beginning with the youngest. Later, the PM Office phoned with the good news that the crisis had been resolved and Andrew was fine.
‘My Uncle Drew had been next in the shooting line: he just made it.’
And Pauline writes, ‘As a coincidence story, I was a District Nurse in Scarborough and while out on my visits one morning I was trying to find an address, and asked a man walking his dog if he knew where it was? He answered me in a broad N Irish accent! Like we do I asked where he came from? Portrush, he says. Of course, I replied, so do I! Then he grinned from ear to ear and suddenly said, You’re Gerry’s daughter! I had a cuppa with your mum just yesterday in Abercorn.
‘Any time after that if he spotted me I would get, Miss Hunt, Miss Hunt, over here. And whenever he was going back home to visit his mum, he would ring me and ask if I wanted him to take anything back.
‘His name, after this long winded story? Drew Stockman.’
I ask Pauline, might you have any photos of him, from meeting him at Scarborough? No, she says. ‘Drew ended up working at GCHQ, at Irton Moor site down the road from me near Scarborough, but sorry I have no photos of him.’
I had written about the hunt for the german heavy cruiser the Bismarck in the episode about Portrush’s listening station in Ramore Head – Signal Station, WWII. Pauline continues, ‘Funny enough, that Irton Moor site – it was a listening station in WWII, and was where the message came through about the sighting of the Bismark, spotted by air-sea aircraft flying from Castle Archdale in Fermanagh. Pauline continues, ‘We have a connection to that story: my grandparents, the Shutts, lived in Irvingstown and my granny ran The Railway Hotel there – it was the family home until we all moved up permanently to Portrush, with grandad Capt. Shutt on the Sports Committee. The Air Force guys from Castle Archdale would regularly come in to the Railway Hotel pub for a drink. They came in that night after their long long search mission for the Bismarck, out in the Atlantic, and announced, We found her!’
Of the three Stockman siblings, the youngest was Karen’s mum June, who featured in the previous episode, about LV Ross’s shop – the photo above of her wedding with Derek Ross in 1952.
She was June Brockerton Stockman – Brockerton was her mum’s maiden name.. It was Sheila Brown who had told me the story of George Brockerton and his riding skills, like in the Wall of Death outside Barry’s, and that he was connected to the Stockmans of Causeway St. shop. Phew I was never any good at figuring out who was related to whom, but I see this 1947 story of the connections:
Karen remembers her granny. ‘At Christmas, Maggie, Grannie Stockman, didn’t just bake one Christmas fruit cake, she made a dozen. Why?, you may well ask. Some less fortunate and lonely folk were the delighted recipients of ‘Ma Stockman’s’ Christmas cakes.
‘She was also one of the first women in the town to drive her own car, a huge PINK Vauxhall, so obviously even more cool than today’s BARBIE!
‘Bette and June both passed away relatively young. Granny Stockman’s courage in the face of disappointment and staggering sadness, the loss of two daughters, and her remarkable generosity throughout her life, makes her a very hard act to follow…. Miss you Granny !’
And family photographs: above, Maternal grandmother Maggie Stockman with sister Michele, about 1958; and below, her cousin with Karen (in the white) on the East Strand prom about 1960, and Karen (dark t-shirt) with buddy more recently in Dubai.
Karen writes, ‘We lived in a top floor flat at 44 Bruntsfield House (above The Rock Shop) until I was 10, we then moved to 3 Bath Terrace – a house my Dad had dreamed of! Ten bedrooms! OMG! Granny Stockman generously offered to bankroll Derek to avoid interest charged by a bank!’
I ask, the photos like of Stockman’s shop, are such high quality – were they from a publication? Karen says, ‘Derek had a massive workshop in the house in Bath St, and might have been used for developing the photos in this episode.
‘Our next door neighbour on one side was The Moorings, a bed and breakfast joint, on the other side was Doctor Craig – he took me on as a receptionist for a summer job when I was around 14. He had a charming wife, whose hair turned white overnight when her husband had a huge health scare!
The photograph above shows the site of the Rock Shop, now New Beginnings, and there is the yellow door leading up to what was Bruntsfield House above. Rohdich’s shop on the right and Alice writes, ‘Damian has lovely memories of Derek, Karen’s dad. They were not only business neighbours on Main St, but personal neighbours on Bath Terrace too. He gave Damian his first toolbox, which he still has!’
Trish Gray originally saw the bits of information from Karen and had proposed, ‘I think you might have enough to do something on ‘Three sweetshops in the same family…’ which prompted this series. ‘And that Derek from memory, might have been Treasurer in Holy Trinity for some years? The Stockmans will be well known by your older readers. She made her own toffee apples, fudge etc. had an ice cream freezer. Sold everything from fresh fruit to buckets and spades!’
And so the three shops, Ross & Stockman, and in their new guises. Such warm memories, such positive experiences, so great Portrush characters. Thank you Karen for sharing x.
Three sweet shops:
(1) Ross, the Rock Shop
(2) LV Ross, Lower Main St.
(3) Stockmans, the Seaside Supply Store